The Enneagram Journey

Using the wisdom of the Enneagram, and ongoing discussion and conversation, we will grow compassion for ourselves and others, as well as a better understanding for why we do what we do!

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Friday Jan 19, 2024

"Marriage has taught me that two people can experience reality in two very different ways." - Josh Graves
Welcome Josh Graves, preaching and teaching minister at Otter Creek Church in Nashville, TN and author of The Simple Secret: Choosing Love in a Culture of Hostility, and an Enneagram 3.
A little subtype talk, a little family systems talk, relationships (of course), and do you know if you're playing the game?
This is a GOOOOOOD, good book! You can get your copy here on Amazon.
Clear your calendar! August 1st through August 3rd, the 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp with Suzanne in Dallas and online. There is no experience that can replace being in Dallas in person for the event, but a second option is joining online if you can't be there in person. Suzanne and LTM are working on the material right now, and as soon as the weekend's teaching is set, we will let you know. For now just go ahead and make those travel plans for Thursday, August 1 through Saturday, August 3rd!
We wouldn’t be able to have bootcamp, workshops, cohorts, etc., without you! LTM is a 501c3 non-profit ministry, and your donations help us to keep workshops and resources affordable as well as fund scholarships for the Cohort program, teaching events, and maintenance and upkeep of The Micah Center. Visit to support the podcast and Life in the Trinity Ministry
"All You Need is Love", The Beatles (1967)
How I Met Your Mother (S3: E18)

Friday Dec 29, 2023

If you're a fan of The Enneagram Journey then there is a good chance you're a fan of books. Today's episode is filled with good book talk because Suzanne's dear friend Jeff Crosby is on the show.
Jeff, Enneagram Nine and author of The Language of The Soul, shares his experience as a 9, what forgiveness means to him, and much more.
Find out more about Jeff at and click here to get your copy of The Language of The Soul.
The Enneagram Journey podcast is produced by Life in the Trinity Ministry, a 501c(3) non-profit ministry. The podcast, workshops, Cohorts, and other enneagram and spiritual formation resources are made possible with your support and financial contributions. Click here to donate at or visit
Thank you for your continued support of the podcast and LTM!
Shadowlands (1993, Richard Attenborough)
We're The Millers (2013, New Line Cinema)
The Office deleted scenes with Michael Scott
Bruce Cockburn, "Orders" live on eTown

December 2023 Q&A

Monday Dec 04, 2023

Monday Dec 04, 2023

It's been a busy season, but The Enneagram Journey is back with a fantastic episode of Q&A with Suzanne, and a special appearance from Dr. Andy Stoker.
CLICK HERE to ask a question for a future Q&A episode!
"Enneagram 7s Reframe, Enneagram 3s Restructure"
The Seventh Law of Emotional Triangles
What is nikhedonia?
The 4 Mantras and The Holidays is Saturday, December 9th
Show Up
Pay Attention
Tell the Truth
Don't Attach to the Results
Now do all of that and have a fun, bright, and beautiful holiday season! Maybe not so easy? Well this workshop can help!
Register to join online from anywhere in the world. Registration includes access to the Live teaching, the replay if you can't make it on the 9th or need to pop in and out, as well as a free audio download of the workshop.
More information and registration at
Thank you for subscribing and listening to The Enneagram Journey Podcast.
LTM is a 501c3 non-profit ministry, and your donations help us to keep the podcast ad-free, workshops and resources affordable, as well as fund scholarships for the Cohort program, teaching events, and maintenance and upkeep of The Micah Center. Your can donate to support the ministry at
Step Brothers (2008 Columbia Pictures)
Good Will Hunting (1997 Miramax)
Dr. Andy Stoker (December 2024 Q&A)

Tuesday Oct 24, 2023

You may know that Suzanne was introduced to the world of podcasting through friend of the show, Luke Norsworthy. Now Luke has introduced Suzanne to Jason Miller, Enneagram 5, pastor at South Bend City Church and author of When The World Breaks. We'll get a peek at their relationship and Jason's affection for all Sevens! What is it like to be an enneagram Five and a church planter? Are you a non-anxious individual? And, lets reexamine our feelings about the word promiscuous. “In our dualistic culture, a neutral stand is not appreciated.” - SS   PLUG TIME The 4 Mantras with Suzanne Stabile - at The Micah Center and Online Show Up Pay Attention Tell The Truth Don't Get Attached to the Results Saturday, December 9th at The Micah Center with an online option for those who can't make it in person. There is no better time to walk through and with these Mantras than leading into Christmas and the New Year. AND, there is no better person to learn them from than Suzanne. REGISTER HERE "I was reading Richard Rohr before it was cool." We heard that in this episode and immediately loved the phrase. So, why not put it on a super comfortable, tri-blend tee?! Get yours here before they sell out. Take the time and visit for more opportunities! TODAY'S INTRO The Office (S7: E15) It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (S10: E9) Promiscuous by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland Joe DeRosa, You Let Me Down, Feb. 2017

Wednesday Oct 04, 2023

Enneagram Ones, have you named your Inner Critic? In this episode, Brian Lee shares his relationship with his Critic, as well as his journey from Broken to Beloved. Suzanne and Brian talk about Ennneagram One's relationship with Perfection and it what that my mean, and a great discussion about the line that Ones and Sevens share. This episode also includes a special appearance from Enneagram 8, Joey Schewee! PLUG TIME The Road Back to You has sold over 1 Million copies! If you or someone you know needs a fresh copy, during the month of October LTM is selling personalized/signed copies of The Road Back to You for $13 (a Stabile lucky number). Visit and let Suzanne know who to sign it for and we'll get it headed your way. Early Christmas present?! Also, join LTM, Suzanne, and The Enneagram Journey for a celebration and live podcast recording at The Ivey Tavern in Dallas near Love Field airport on Friday, October 20th. The celebration is free to attend, but if you want to lock in a reserved seat, LTM has some available at Hope to see you there! TODAY'S INTRO: The Critic, FOX 1995 The Wedding Singer, New Line Cinema 1998 One, Sleeping At Last, 2019 Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Warner Bros. 2004

Tuesday Sep 19, 2023

Channeling our inner Jeff Foxworthy... If you've ever thought to yourself, "How can I make sure people already know that I know the Enneagram and that I'm not new to it like they are?", you might be an Enneagram 3! Welcome Mallory Wyckoff to The Enneagram Journey! Mallory Wyckoff (DMin, MTS) is a writer, speaker, spiritual director, and peacemaker. She also serves as key relationships officer with Search for Common Ground, the world’s largest organization dedicated to peacebuilding. Having completed her dissertation on the impact of sexual trauma on survivors’ theological perception and spiritual formation, Mallory has a DMin in missional and spiritual formation. Today's episode includes talk about Curiosity, the difference between an Enneagram 1 and 3, Shame, Imaginative Prayer, and discussion about her newest book, God Is. You can find out more about Mallory at   TODAY'S PLUG: The 4 Mantras and The Holidays with Suzanne Stabile Saturday, December 9th in Dallas and Online Show Up, Pay Attention, Tell the Truth, Don’t attach to the Results. How hard can it be? For different Enneagram numbers, some of these can prove to be difficult enough, but then add the pressures of the holiday season?! No worries though, because this year Suzanne Stabile is going to give us some tools to help us adhere to the 4 Mantras, and have a healthier and happier holiday season. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND TO REGISTER   Thank you for your support of The Enneagram Journey podcast and of Life in the Trinity Ministry! To learn more about LTM, programming, and to donate visit   TODAY'S INTRO: Shame, The Avett Brothers Laura Addis (E3 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, June 2022) Barbie (Warner Bros. 2023) Ted Lasso (S1, E8)

Change, Change, Change

Friday Sep 08, 2023

Friday Sep 08, 2023

Very cool episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast today. In the Spring of 2023 Suzanne and Joe taught a 2 day workshop on Change. Change and Spirituality, Change and the Enneagram, Change and Me, Change and You, CHANGE! The conversation today between Joe and Suzanne is the second segment of that workshop after the Reverend's opening. You can find that opening teaching here on the LTM website. The entire workshop will be available beginning September 12th in the LTM store. PLUG TIME Suzanne is teaching in Dallas September 23rd, in Houston September 30th, and in Porterville, CA October 13-14. We hope you can make it for one of these events! You can find all of the information and links for registration at TODAY'S INTRO Early Mornin' Stoned Pimp, Kid Rock Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy (2004 DreamWorks Pictures) Changes, David Bowie Scrubs (S2.E14) Changes, 2Pac  

August 2023 Q&A

Tuesday Aug 29, 2023

Tuesday Aug 29, 2023

Its your monthly Q&A session with Suzanne! I'm struggling between knowing if I'm a 1 or a 2 Question from a 6 and 9 in relationship and new to the enneagram Several questions about Enneagram 4s and relationships How can a 5 and 9 get stuff done? A parenting question AND MORE "It's never really a matter of the withdrawing stance not knowing what to do. It's a matter of wanting to do what needs to be done."   PLUG TIME Its a quick plug, but a great one! The Road Back to You has sold over 1 MILLION copies!!! Join LTM and The Enneagram Journey podcast in celebrating on Friday, October 20th at The Ivy Tavern in Dallas. There will be a live recording of the podcast and you'll get to be around the LTM community as well as other enneagram enthusiasts in a really fun cool atmosphere. You can find all of the information as it is made available at Congratulations Suzanne!!   TODAY'S INTRO: Family Guy (S16, E12) "Just Breathe", Pearl Jam (2009) The Office (S9, E18) Just Friends (New Line Cinema, 2005)

Friday Aug 18, 2023

Meet Jasmine Miller! Enneagram 6, mother of two, married to Nat (9), and your new favorite Public Service Announcer. In today's episode, we're going to listen to a little of the show Lost, talk about Fear and Anxiety, journaling, and what it's like to be an enneagram 6 with two little ones around. PLUG TIME: Two upcoming events! Houston, TX - September 30, 2024 join Suzanne at St. Paul's UMC for Relationships and the Enneagram. Click here for more information and registration. Porterville, Ca - October 13-14 you can dive into The Path Between Us and Relationships and the Enneagram with Suzanne on her birthday! Want to know what present to give her: your attendance! Click here for more information and registration. Don't wait until it is too late to apply for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! The final day to apply is September 1, 2023. Visit for all of the dates, information and application. LTM is a place for solitary work that cannot be done alone, and the Cohort program is the perfect example!   TODAY'S INTRO: Friends (Season 10, Episode 9) Let's Be Cops (2014, 20th Century Studios) Wedding Crashers (2005 New Line Cinema)

Tuesday Aug 08, 2023

It is that time! Joey and Billy Schewee ,aka the Enneagram Parents, join Suzanne and Joel at The Micah Center to talk about this magical time of the year that is: BACK TO SCHOOL TIME! They're going to share some of their experiences, what they've learned from others on The Journey and help us to better understand our children during this transitional period as well as help us make some better parenting choices. After listening, we're sure you'll want to find them on social media. They're most active on Instagram and Facebook @enneagramparents.   PLUG TIME 2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating was so wonderful. You can still register to watch the replay of all 3 days of teaching at Apply today for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! In 2024 LTM will offer 4 Cohorts: The Enneagram Cohort, The Contemplative Cohort, The Family Systems Cohort, and the Deconstruction/Reconstruction Cohort. Click here to find the dates, descriptions, and expectations as well as the application. LTM is a place for solitary work that cannot be done alone!   TODAY'S INTRO South Park (Season 24, Episode 1) Big Daddy (1999, Columbia Pictures) Billy Madison (1995, Universal Pictures) "What I Go To School For", Jonas Brothers

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